“How to Clear Up Your Men and Money Issues”

(Did you realize they’re connected? They are!)

As a single woman in the dating world, I started noticing a pattern in the men I dated. I could easily find men to date, but the relationships all ended with me feeling used to some degree. I felt as if I had incredible value and a lot to give, but these men just weren’t seeing it.

As I began exploring my men issues, a friend told me about the men-money connection. It seems that experts are confirming a link between the money problems women have with our men issues. Many women who struggle with money also struggle in relationships with men. Even if you have a good relationship with your man, if you are experiencing money problems, it could be that the relationship with your man could be improved. Or if your money situation is good, but you have men issues, it’s possible that your financial situation could be even better.

As I explored my own men and money issues, I uncovered a startling relationship between the way men were treating me and how money was treating me. For example, some thinking patterns I had about men were …

• Men won’t commit.
• Men won’t do what it takes to be with me.
• Men can’t be trusted. They won’t come through for me when I need them most.
• I had a habit of over-investing in men who wouldn’t return the investment.
• My love life was one big roller coaster ride.

As I looked at my business and money, I saw a similar pattern.

• I had people who were interested in my services but who wouldn’t commit.
• People weren’t doing what it took to work with me, even though I could offer them serious positive results.
• I felt I couldn’t trust money to be there for me when I needed it most.
• I also had a bad habit of over delivering and giving people WAY too much service for small investments on their end.
• As a result, my cash flow had become a roller coaster ride.

Once I saw the connecting pattern, I acted fast. I made a monster list of all the beliefs, feelings, and negative results I was experiencing with both men and money. I then turned those around and came up with a list of over 80 positive affirmations. I recorded those as an audio, set them to Baroque music for optimal brain absorption and began listening to them daily.

The results were powerful, immediate, and created significant shifts in both my business and the types of men I began attracting. I entered a relationship that was much better than any I had had in the past. Even though that relationship didn’t last, it taught me a lot about valuing myself, about the importance of communication, and not settling for less than what you know you want.

In time, the relationship I had envisioned became mine, in a wonderful, miraculous way. What’s more, my entire financial life shifted too. Today, I am finally free to focus on the things that bring me joy instead of constantly scrambling to find ways to make ends meet.

Just to give you a little example of how I shifted from men who wouldn’t invest, this is what Dave surprised me with about a month before our wedding. It’s a far cry from a former husband who let me drive my car with bald tires until I could figure out a way to earn the money for new ones!

When I mentioned my results to a colleague and some clients, they suggested I make these affirmations available to women with similar challenges.